A MENTORING MANUAL
for
PRAYER PARTNERS


"Basic Training for Christians!"


"Go therefore and make disciples of all nations,
baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit,
and teaching them to obey everything that I have commanded you.
And remember, I am with you always, to the end of the age."
— Matthew 28:19-20

(This resource was created when I was

the Associate for Church Development and Support at:)

The First Church of Christ - Unionville, CT
"A Small Group Lifestyle Church"
(860) 673-2796

[tburlington@macconnect.com]

860-669-1859

December 1996 & April 2000


TABLE OF CONTENTS

Background Section to Mentoring

Page:

What is Mentoring?

1

Good Listening Includes...

2

Where to Start: Seekers / Believers

3

How Will Mentoring Effect the Life of Our Community?

4

Spiritual Development – Baseball Diamond

5

The Mentoring Process Outlined

Table of Contents

6, 7

Introduction:

Why are we here? The vision!

    A. Scriptural Focus, Purpose, & Journey
8
    B. Discipleship Goals – Baseball Diamond
9
    C. Prayer Partners:
1. How to Proceed in Small Groups

2. How to Proceed as Individuals / Couples

10
    D. The Faithful Format
11

LEVEL 1 - THE BASICS

I. BASIC BELIEFS- APOSTLE’S CREED

(With thanks to: Lyman Colman's - Confirmation Youth Series, 1999 - parts used with permission: 3/13/96)

God's Universal Gifts to Humanity

12
    A. God
13
    B. Jesus Christ
14
    C. Holy Spirit
15
    D. Forgiveness of Sins
16
    E. Resurrection of the Body
17
    F. Life Everlasting
18

II. BASIC TRADITIONS - BALANCED SPIRITUAL FORMATION

(Parts of this resource were used with permission in the original Mentoring Manual. While I'm waiting for a response to use it in this web site format, you can find the material in: Richard Foster's Renovaré resource by James Bryan Smith - A Spiritual Formation Workbook .

Discovering a Balanced Strategy for Spiritual Growth

19
    A. The Contemplative Tradition -

    Discovering a Life of Intimacy with God

20
    B. The Holiness Tradition -

    Discovering a Life of Purity and Virtue

21
    C. The Charismatic Tradition -

    Discovering a Life of Empowerment Through the Spirit

22
    D. The Social Justice Tradition -

    Discovering a Life of Justice and Compassion

23
    E. The Evangelical Tradition -

    Discovering a Life Founded upon the Word

24

III. BASIC DISCIPLINES -

THE SPIRITUAL TOOLS

25

    A. Love God - Grow Spiritually

1. Being a Church (A member of Christ’s Body):

    a. Sanctuary - Celebration

    b. Small Group - Discipleship

26
2. Prayer Time:

    a. Listening for God’s direction

    b. Petitions on behalf of others

27
3. Scripture Time:

    a. Reading

    b. Listening for God’s personal word to you

28

    B. Love Neighbor - Grow in Outreach (Membership is a by-product of loving outreach!)

4. Gift awareness 29
5. Giving - Treasure 30
6. Service - Giving Time & Talent 31
7. Invitation:

    a. To Fellowship

    b. To Faith

32

LEVEL II - THE COMMANDS OF JESUS

IV. "BAPTIZE"

(Parts of this resource were used with permission in the original Mentoring Manual. While I'm waiting for a response to use it in this web site format, you can find the material in Jim Egli & Ben Hoerr's booklet, The I Factor )

The Faith side of the Spectrum

33
    A. Identify your Oikos
34
    B. Cooperate With God
35
    C. Love Others to Christ
36
    D. Share Your Story
37
    E. Share His Story
38
    F. Invitational Process:
1. To Fellowship - List, Pray, Wait, Invite

2. To Faith

39

V. "TEACH" Your Mission can be found within your Gifts from God

The Action side of the Spectrum

40

    A. Personal Gifts from the Spirit

Love God ...
1. Spiritual Gifts - Biblical 41
with Soul
2. Motivated Abilities (SIMA) 42
with Heart
3. Life Journey - Gifts from the ups and downs of life 43
with Mind
4. Myers —Briggs - Personality (MBTI) 44
with Strength
5. Behavior & Biblical Characters (DISC) 45
6. Summary Sheet - Gift Matrix 46
and Neighbor as Self
7. My Call / Mission Chart 47
8. Mission Examples – Ephesians 4:1-12 48

    B. My Faith & Ministry Paper, and Project

49

VI. Appendix

Resources to help you on your way

    A. Notes
50
    B. Bibliography
51
    C. STEPS FOR FINDING A PRAYER PARTNER
52
    D. Checklist for Prayer Partners – Discipling Chart
53
    E. Faith Development Process
54